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Thursday, February 24, 2011

Zendorous: Indifferent to 'Barking dogs'

Zendorous: Indifferent to 'Barking dogs'

Indifferent to 'Barking dogs'


Have you ever found yourself in a situation when you were chased by a dog? Almost everyone must have faced it. What had been your action? If you answer that you would just walk away then you are one the intelligent people I would like to trade with.If not, don't worry I would teach you the power of being indifference.
I have found in my experience that some people around you are jealous of you even without their knowledge, which would mean that it is a psychological factor. And when this jealous takes them they are unable to attain the same heights as that of the other guy.
And the only choice that they have is to pull down on our legs(like a dog). They cannot tell face to face that they are jealous of us and so they take another route and try to mock at us.And we being afraid of being mocked get down to their level and try to please them so that they can keep quite.
Now the next question is, Will you bark at a dog in reply when it barks at you?
the answer to this question is a definite no. Then why are we giving up easily to other people calling them as your friend?
Are you afraid of being friendless?
Let me tell you that no friend of yours is going to share his or her salary when he/she starts to earn. So why do you give yourself up to just few words of belittling which doesn't mean anything to you. Isn't it time to check yourself and live as you are?
Think about it again and try to be indifferent towards people who bark.

Negative Thoughts

Today, as the class was getting over my friend(G Manoj Kumar) asked me , Is it bad to have too much of negative thoughts? I wondered at that question for about ten seconds as I was taken aback by the content of it. I said Yes.
Then within myself I started to wonder what makes the negative thoughts to enter our mind and it was then I realized that our education system is to be blamed.
From our childhood we are taught about various laws and definitions which are standard.(I don't say that they are standard) And our mind subconciously gets used to it. So here we are with all those limits set around us because we are always taught about the limits of a thing or a machine or a theory but we are never taught about the possibilities of breaking a law or a definition.
Finally what has happened? We are within a circle telling ourselves that we won't cross it. While the fact is that the circle doesn't even exist.
So are you going to break your boundary and let your imaginations take wings?